Posted on 03 Dec 2018
10 Things Candidates Do to Create a Big First Impression
Whether it takes 7 seconds or 17 minutes to make a first impression, people always seem astonished at what idiosyncrasy causes the gut reaction.
Recruiters know this: That reaction may be positive or negative, but it pays to know how others perceive you.
After more than 30 years of personal coaching and studying the topics of interpersonal skills, body language, interviewing, and career advancement, these issues are mentioned most frequently as those that make someone memorable — typically for negative reasons.
Of course, there’s always the outlier — the person who interprets the habit or trait positively.
So to be complete, I’ve listed both potential reactions or the first impression below — the positive and the negative. Take your pick:
1 – The “EST” Habit
Routinely “top” every comment someone else makes with one of your own. You have the “best” job, the “funniest” story, the “fastest laptop,” the “easiest” process for managing remote contractors.
The positive reaction: The most competent person in the room.
The negative reaction: A blowhard — typically bragging without reason.
2 – Limp Body Language
Sauntering walk. Slumped shoulders. Small, limp gestures. Blank facial expression.
Positive reaction: Non-threatening or intimidating.
Negative reaction: Low energy. Slow (physically and mentally). Low self-esteem.
3 – Boisterous laughter
Habitually loud, unrestrained laughter at almost any happening except for the gravest situation.
Positive reaction: Jovial, pleasant person.
Negative reaction: Moronic behavior; trying to attract attention and knows no better way to do it.
4 – Entering a room flamboyantly
Arrives noisily in such a way that your entrance immediately attracts attention — with loud greetings, an entourage of people or things accompanying you, or extraordinarily late with profuse apologies to everyone.
Positive reaction: Must be a confident, take-charge person.
Negative reaction: A very self-absorbed, insincere person
5 – Verbosity
Talking incessantly about whatever topic is at hand — whether adding substantive or trivial comments.
Positive reaction: Entertaining.
Negative reaction: Nervous; can’t figure out what’s important and what’s not. First impression is boring.
6 – Nodding continually as others speak
Does it in meetings, in conversations, during lectures.
Positive reaction: A pleasant, agreeable person.
Negative reaction: Doesn’t this person have any opinions or ideas of their own?
7 – Writing in fragmented spurts
Writes emails that read like stream-of-consciousness thoughts — sentence fragments, missing details — that leave readers guessing at what’s “between the lines.”
Positive reaction: Must be a terribly busy person forced into an unfocused situation.
Negative reaction: They must be illiterate.
8 – Overpowering handshake
Either crushing the other person’s hand in a painful grip, or, maneuvering the handclasp so that your own hand is always on top.
Positive reaction: Powerful person.
Negative reaction: A manipulator; trying to impress.
9 – Jewelry
Wears odd jewelry that distracts rather than compliments personal assets and clothing.
Positive reaction: A risk-taker.
Negative reaction: Big attention-seeker, a rebel.
10 – Improper grammar
Subject-verb disagreement. Misused words. Awkward sentence construction.
Positive reaction: Obviously speaks multiple languages, and this is not his or her native tongue.
Negative reaction: Uneducated, native speaker of the language. Why is he or she unwilling to learn?
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